Jeff Brown

Financial Downfall a Moral Not Financial Crisis



Posted: Tuesday, February 17, 2009

by Jeff Brown
Inner Projection

Why the collapse? Well, it began many decades ago in America. It was due to rapid economic growth that began in the 1940s and culminated in the boom of the 1990s and bust of the 21st century.

How much have we grown over the decades? Consider that from 1895 to 1990 bicycles have become 36 times cheaper. However, specifically determining how wealthy we've becomes depends on the commodities and their perceived importance. Nevertheless, the point is that our wealth and the ability of the average American to purchase a great number of items has increased markedly.

Bottom line, the U.S. which is 6% of the world's population has over half the world's wealth. But this fear of 10% or even 15% unemployment is myopically self-centered American paranoia coming from the richest country on the planet; by contrast, the rest of the world functions at an average unemployment rate of 30% and has for some time. This inward and downward gaze to our collective bellybuttons has created chaos of great depth and that for much concern, but not merely of the economic variety. So what of this other concern?


Regardless of where you look-the sports arena, business room, political meetings, school and college campuses, places public and private-people have become predominantly less civil and moral. The "Express Yourself" 80s has turned into the "Just Yourself" 2000s.

More people than ever before are looking through you, cutting you off on the highway, stepping on your toes or closing the door in your face without a word, cussing without regard, driving without concern for life and limb of even children in the streets, on and on and on.

I have experienced this rudeness and selfishness firsthand for some time and have watched it grow and proliferate (friends and acquaintances across the board verifying the growth). More and more students have cut me off nearly stepping on my toes without apology as they make their way across campus; a man used his truck like a fist as he jacked it back and forth moving people out of his way as he made a u-turn into oncoming traffic; in Boston, after a relaxing three-day weekend at my parent's cottage on Cape Cod, I made my way to my programmer's job downtown only to be cut off by a middle-age man in a BMW who couldn't let another car in, pulling to a complete stop in front of me in rush hour traffic to signal with a finger his displeasure; and the list goes on and on.

I now hear more swear words in one day on a college / university campus than I used to hear in a month in my youth. The amount of self-seeking, self-serving, self-righteous behavior is at an all time high and on the rise. But this is not something that we should be surprised by. We have had warnings for thousands of years as to its coming and its danger:

For men shall be lovers of their own selves, covetous, boasters, proud, blasphemers, disobedient to parents, unthankful, unholy, [3] Without natural affection, trucebreakers, false accusers, incontinent, fierce, despisers of those that are good, [4] Traitors, heady, high-minded, lovers of pleasures more than lovers of God; [5] Having a form of godliness, but denying the power thereof: from such turn away (2 Timothy 3-16 KJV).

So warns Timothy about the end-of-days.

We see this fall in those who took advantage to line their pockets only to bring the current financial ruin. We see the pride in athletes who focus on their accomplishment outside of the team, time and again that which has been encouraged by America's general focus on individual awards (Before the age of the author, it was seen as rude and self-serving to put one's name on the book cover or to market one's self like a household product). We see the rise in disobedience to not only parents but school authorities (as the student who said to my friend who was teaching high school at the time: "Go ahead, you can even call the cops. Do it! I don't care); we see in politics and business those how are "traitors, heady, high-minded"; we see those who are "blasphemers" who use the Lord's name without regard every day; we see the proliferation of those "without natural affection" as promiscuity and its encouraging cousin pornography (a multi-billion dollar industry) continue on the rise.

But there is more, much more.

Americans, having become rich and indulgent for maybe too long, have slackened in their work ethic, an ethic that is now monopolized by Easterners: India and China and the Middle East. According to industry experts, they are better qualified, more highly motivated, more reliable, ethical and honest. They have the old-style work ethic that we, in many ways, have lost. One of the reasons for outsourcing is that many U.S. companies see a better, more quickly processed or handle product by countries outside the U.S.

Whatever happened to the "virtues of industry and thrift," as Prime Minister Margaret Thatcher stressed? These lessons that the U.S. at one time taught the world are now being improved upon by the student who will soon laugh at the teacher if she does not wake up.

Here is what British historian and author Paul Johnson has to say about the current state of the Western Nation:

"We are traveling along the high road to incompetence and poverty, led by a farcical
coalition of fashionably liberal academics on the make, assorted eco-crackpots and
media wiseacres" ("Can We Afford Liberalism Now?" Forbes, Nov. 17, 2008).

What we need to do is hearken back to an age when "Thank You" was pursed on our lips over and above any current, creative combination of cuss words too freely thrown around today. Self-centered rudeness abounds today.


I have a very kind friend who very patiently put up with a mother's crying baby in the theater for some time. To the delight of many around him and his wife, he kindly asked the woman if she would remove the child until it calmed down. The woman screamed in a self-righteous outrage, tearing a blue streak that nearly sent my friend back to his seat in several pieces.

We need to return to a time when we thanked people often, quickly, and quietly. We need to hearken back to a time when even stealing a piece of candy or a minute of work from an employer disturbed us to the core. We need to hearken back to a time when we would only take a sick day if we were sick, and then only if it were so bad we couldn't get out of bed. We need to hearken back to a time when a kind thought, word, or deed was the first thing to mind over and above any self-serving want or desire.

None of us are perfect. And I am not claiming to be sacrosanct in all my dealings with my fellow humans, nor do I expect the same of anyone else, but we must seek to be more honorable, honest, and humble; humble meaning teachable not being of a mind that it's okay to have people walk over us in their self-righteousness.

In closing we can look to Khaled Hosseini's The Kite Runner and the characters therein for examples of honor, honesty, trust, respect, and accountability, all characteristics that will lead us to betterment, economic and otherwise.

Baba, the father of Amir (main character), is on his way to Pakistan with his son to avoid the Russians in their takeover of Afghanistan. At the boarder, a Russian guard insists on "having an hour" with one of the women in the truck, a married woman with baby and husband in toe. Baba stands and admonishes the guard, asking him if he does not feel shame for what he desires. Amir, afraid that his father will be shot, asks Baba to sit. Baba speaks to the man interpreting, "Tell him [the guard] I will take a thousand bullets before I let this indecency take place." A true hero, a man of honor and depth, one all would be willing to call friend, associate, companion, father.

During another scene, Hassan, the young servant friend of Amir (Hassan and his father work for Baba), runs to get the fallen kite that Amir has taken down in a kite-fighting tournament, one in which Amir has been victorious. As he retrieves the kite, Hassan encounters the village bullies who tell him to give them the kite or suffer the consequences. Being honorable and brave, Hassan states that he will not give up the kite but take what the bullies have to offer instead. Here the bullies beat and rape Hassan, who never mentions the incident to anyone, even though Amir has been witness to it.

We have fallen on hard times economically, for sure. But morally, we have not only fallen harder but deeper. We must begin by teaching our sons and daughters what is right and wrong, to be honest, hard working, accountable, honorable, to stand up for what is right even in most difficult times and challenging settings. For if we do not, not only can our country not handle it, but the kind and gentle hearts of our mothers, daughters, wives, all the fair of heart, will find them broken and tossed onto the heap of what was once a great and thriving country.

Jeff is a Career, Life, & Mentor coach & CEO of  www.InnerProjection.com: working with students and parents using the proprietary Success, Design and Preparation system creating a plan to ensure his clients are of the 30% of college grads who don't waste 10 to 15 years or leave 100s of thousands of dollars on the table.

Prior to owning Inner Projection, Jeff worked as a computer programmer and in tech. support, but hated it enough to move from his home in Connecticut to do stand up comedy in Boston where he worked with such comics as Bill Burr, Dan Cook, and Billy Martin and wrote for people like Mz. Michigan who needed material for her ventriloquism act. He then moved to Los Angeles to do more stand up, but found being a coach & college instructor more rewarding. He's married with 3 children.

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Top-level comments on this article: (3 total)
» left by Ken McCreless
3 years 74 days ago.
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Jeff, awesome article. You have put into words what this nation needs to hear. This is why politicians get away with the things they do and why it seems we cannot get an honest individual to even run for office. Great job. I hope folks take it to heart, Jeff.
» left by Jeff Brown 3 years 74 days ago.
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Ken,

I agree wholeheartedly. Thanks for stopping by to comment.
» left by Myla Madson
3 years 73 days ago.
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I feel so intimidated commenting on your work. You are such a brilliant writer I feel I have nothing intelligent to say or add. I just wanted to let you know I read your article, understood most of it, and can only begin to imagine what it must feel like to have such a huge brain. Have a great day and watch out for those toes. I did, by the way, completely understand and agree with your last paragraph. My children understand and agree with it as well.
 
Myla
» left by Jeff Brown 3 years 73 days ago.
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Myla,

Thanks so much for your kind words, and even if one has a "big brain," it's essential to keep it under wraps. Meaning, intelligence is relevant (for example, I for the life of me could not figure out how to spell "relevant"--I'm a terrible speller), we all have our blind sides. The key is in maintaining the understanding that we may differ in abilities, but we are all equal in our desire and need to be treated with honor and respect. This is from where I write. Peace to you and yours.

Jeff
» left by Tiffany
from Oregon
2 years 113 days ago.
Wow... what a great article. I completely agree with you. so many people today have lost not only their manners, but they have no morals. I worry for what it will be like when my son is growing up. So much has changed and keeps changing for the worst... i mean there are many pro's like our technology and the medical discoveries. But people these days have lost their heart, their compassion, and will do anything to make more money. well thank you for posting such a great article it was very interesting.
» left by Jeff Brown 2 years 113 days ago.
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Yes, and it's becoming more and more accepted to break the law, but it's OK as long as you make money. Thanks for the kudos.
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